The power of pretending to be someone you’re not

There’s a lot of power in pretending to be someone you’re not.

We all have a lot of potential in our heads.

But at any time, we only give ourselves so much permission.

Over time, certain patterns of behavior and thinking become routine… and we start to believe that’s who we are.

But we still have a lot of potential in our heads.

And pretending to be someone you’re not is really all about giving yourself permission.

Today, I told myself to be someone who finds everyday things not a big deal.

To not react to other people… to small complications or injuries… to negative thoughts.

It made me feel good.

It changed how i walked.

Maybe it will even change how i find approaching girls – because it’s really not a big deal.