I went out on the streets today to do daygame after a week-long break.
My goal was to do 3 approaches.
I only did 1.
Because that first approach was a pretty Portuguese girl who was looking for a cafe. We started talking, had a coffee together, spent the next 40 minutes together, and made plans to hang out in the afternoon.
I didn’t feel guilty heading home after that.
And I was grateful that I hadn’t been stupid enough in the morning to simply tell her, “Yeah, the cafe’s that way, just keep walking and you’ll find it, bye.”
An instant date takes priority over more new approaches.
A new girl takes priority over a girl you’ve already seen.
Experiences that stretch you, or positive experiences that build your state, take priority over mindless (though important) routine practice.