Scarcity and the middle-of-the-road approach

She was coming towards me again.

I’d seen her earlier, on the other side of the road, while I was walking through the park. I didn’t approach then.

But now, here she was again, coming up towards me on the street.

She was a large and sexy girl, wearing a blue summer dress. Her giant tits and her giant ass were bouncing violently as she marched down the street.

I let her pass by me and then I turned after her.

She was about to hit an intersection.

I ran to catch her in the few yards of remaining space, but…

She started to cross the street sideways, even before hitting the intersection. And she practically ran into me while I was trying to get in front of her.

So I stopped her right there, in the middle of the road.

“Hello. I just want to tell you one thing.”

She was a little bit amused and a great deal confused. I couldn’t get her to stay there in the middle of the road with me.

So why am I bringing this up?

I just watched a section of the Daygame Blueprint where Yad says he will stalk the girl, following her until he find a good spot to approach. It’s just a reflection of the abundance mindset he’s got.

And I think that’s right.

But I’m not in abundance right now. I’m in scarcity. And stalking girls will make it more likely I get awkward and nervous… or even cop out altogether.

So in these early days, it’s better to have stupid mid-road approaches, than to pretend that I am more successful and accomplished than I actually am.

And if you are not yet at Yad’s level, or somewhere close, then maybe you too should consider approaching girls as soon as you can, instead of waiting for the optimal situation.