A while back, when I was really struggling to approach, I tried lots of different strategies to break through the resistance.
And eventually, I succeeded.
I then wrote down all the things I had been trying and telling myself to do.
There were 8 or 9 of them. Anyways, I want to bring up #2 on this list today.
Because I found myself walking through an abandoned part of town this morning — for fear of going to the same streets I’d been walking on all last week.
And then I told myself:
“You’re doing all this for you.”
This reminded me of item #2 on my approach resistance list, which reads:
“Remember it’s for you. So you can feel good, so you feel you’re making progress. Remember there’s no better feeling than a successful day of sarging.”
Maybe it’s not clear how the two things connect.
I’m not sure myself at this point.
But they do connect.
And it’s worth remembering that daygame is for you.
Not just for the results you will get.
not just for the approval or even for the transformations it will bring.
But for you, on some really fundamental level of your own soul.