It’s good to have a mission & purpose for just about everything in life.
Because when you’re out in the shit, and grenades are exploding all around your head, and your brain wants to go into full-flight mode, a mission and purpose keeps you aligned, so you can make decisions that take you a little closer to your goal.
This applies to every kind of human interaction. And of course, to daygame.
So here’s my daygame mission and purpose. It’s to make the girl feel:
– safe
– comfortable
– that there’s no pressure on her and that this interaction is light
– that she’s having fun
– and that I like her genuinely, for herself at her best
This mission & purpose doesn’t say anything about what I get out of this or what I want. Because the mission and purpose has to be in your adversary’s — err, your target’s — world.