I was walking today down a busy pedestrian street when I saw a great white waif:
She was tall, blonde, leggy. Wearing leather pants and tip toeing along on too-high heels. She looked more noticeable than good.
My brain evaluated my prospects if I approach. Brain’s calculation: Expect her to maybe smile and accept the compliment and listen politely and diplomatically but have it go nowhere.
So I didn’t approach, and she walked away, forever. Which was my mistake.
Some girls are a waste of time because you are certain they won’t respond well. And you are right, they will be a waste of time, if you keep doing what you’ve done so far.
But those are opportunities for growth. So go in there and make it your goal to have a positive interaction. And one day, you will be able to harpoon that great white waif.