I saw a good looking girl today dressed in a cool raincoat.
She was heading down a large but empty street. I wanted to approach.But…
I realized that by the time I got to her, she would be in front of a cafe. A dozen tables were set up outside, with people at each table. I would have to approach with that big audience within earshot.
I let her go.
So I wrote a note to myself:
Large audience or small. Walking audience or stationary.
You have to be the one to suck up the tension and approach regardless. If you can do that, you get so many bonus points.
If you cannot, you get nothing… or at best a weak approach. Seek out the situations where the approach is repulsive.