I just came back from a 5-day trip with a 21-year-old girl I met through daygame a year ago. Here are some things I learned in these 5 days:
1. Women mature faster than men. And some women, such as this 21-year-old, are more mature and experienced than most 40-year-old guys I know.
2. Some people have a problem with impulse control. It’s common in teenagers. But it can stick around even later. This girl could go wild — drinking, drugs, partying. She knew it and she didn’t mind. The next day, she would just laugh about it. “Why am I like this?”
3. Every time i need motivation for daygame, I should remember this experience. I met this girl a year ago on the street in my home town. We talked for 5 minutes, then went on an instant date for 30 minutes. She was just passing through and her plane left in a couple of hours. I took her contacts and we stayed in touch over the last year. And now we met up in a foreign city and had a great 5 days together.
4. Cocaine is a common drug among party goers, even in Europe.
5. There is a class of girls who are looking for fun, very openly. Sex is part of that fun. But it’s not all they want.
6. Some girls genuinely have a thing for older men.
7. Sex at age 15 with your father’s best friend, who is close to 40, doesn’t have to be traumatic or scar a girl for life. In fact it’s possible the girl will grow up to be happy and stable.
8. My own sex drive, which I have been suspicious of lately, seems to get back to healthy levels when I have a limited-time opportunity to have sex with a new girl.
9. Girls can get too drunk to care much about sex.
10. There’s a whole world of fun and adventure and affection out there. It doesn’t seem like it when I sit alone at home for weeks. but it’s true.