Two girls ignored me today.
I approached one of them on a small side street. I had to jog after her a good distance. Eventually, I got in front of her and said, “Excutes me.”
“Yes,” she said as she walked around me.
“I just want to tell you one thing.”
She kept walking. “I’m in a hurry.”
The other girl was walking slowly on one of the main streets. I got in front of her. “What?” she barked at me.
“I wanted to tell you that you look nice.”
“Thank you,” she said with a scowl and walked on.
I’ve been practicing my approaches, and I’ve been working on two things:
Smiling.
And having good eye contact.
Which are both important. But not 100% enough.
There’s another critical thing which I was reminded of today as I was rewatching the Daygame Blueprint.
“You need 100% conviction,” says Yad.
That’s a vague inner game thing but it matters. In practical terms, it means you have to get all the way in front of the girl… fully intercepting her path (“standing on her rails”)… and in a way, blocking out the sun with your magnificence.