I stopped girl in a park this morning. She was young, she had a fine body, and she was wearing some kind of gymmy black outfit.
And it was going well.
She said she’s going to work, but she didn’t make any move to leave. She seemed relieved that I was hitting on her. She was telling me about how she’s moved to the city and how it’s better than where she’s from. She laughed at my jokes.
So I ejected.
I told her I won’t keep her any longer, but it was nice talking to her.
She looked deflated but she went.
What else could she do?
Of course, this was eating at me later. In fact, as soon as I’d ejected. I could have stuck it out. Pushed more. Probably gotten the number.
But even though this was all running through my head…
It wasn’t a mistake to eject.
I’m still getting back on the daygame horse.
And the watchword is: Go slow and make progress.
It’s much more important to be consistent, and to consistently progress, than to be eager and go for the gun right away.
If you keep it up, go out every day, and do a bit more every day, you’ll get plenty of numbers in just another week.
On the other hand, if you get overeager and crash and burn, you might ask or even get a number today — and then never get another number ever.
Again, the key is consistent work and progress, however slow.