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Scarcity and the middle-of-the-road approach

She was coming towards me again.

I’d seen her earlier, on the other side of the road, while I was walking through the park. I didn’t approach then.

But now, here she was again, coming up towards me on the street.

She was a large and sexy girl, wearing a blue summer dress. Her giant tits and her giant ass were bouncing violently as she marched down the street.

I let her pass by me and then I turned after her.

She was about to hit an intersection.

I ran to catch her in the few yards of remaining space, but…

She started to cross the street sideways, even before hitting the intersection. And she practically ran into me while I was trying to get in front of her.

So I stopped her right there, in the middle of the road.

“Hello. I just want to tell you one thing.”

She was a little bit amused and a great deal confused. I couldn’t get her to stay there in the middle of the road with me.

So why am I bringing this up?

I just watched a section of the Daygame Blueprint where Yad says he will stalk the girl, following her until he find a good spot to approach. It’s just a reflection of the abundance mindset he’s got.

And I think that’s right.

But I’m not in abundance right now. I’m in scarcity. And stalking girls will make it more likely I get awkward and nervous… or even cop out altogether.

So in these early days, it’s better to have stupid mid-road approaches, than to pretend that I am more successful and accomplished than I actually am.

And if you are not yet at Yad’s level, or somewhere close, then maybe you too should consider approaching girls as soon as you can, instead of waiting for the optimal situation.

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Remember daygame is for you

A while back, when I was really struggling to approach, I tried lots of different strategies to break through the resistance.

And eventually, I succeeded.

I then wrote down all the things I had been trying and telling myself to do.

There were 8 or 9 of them. Anyways, I want to bring up #2 on this list today.

Because I found myself walking through an abandoned part of town this morning — for fear of going to the same streets I’d been walking on all last week.

And then I told myself:

“You’re doing all this for you.”

This reminded me of item #2 on my approach resistance list, which reads:

“Remember it’s for you. So you can feel good, so you feel you’re making progress. Remember there’s no better feeling than a successful day of sarging.”

Maybe it’s not clear how the two things connect.

I’m not sure myself at this point.

But they do connect.

And it’s worth remembering that daygame is for you.

Not just for the results you will get.
not just for the approval or even for the transformations it will bring.

But for you, on some really fundamental level of your own soul.

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The best way to be enthusiastic while daygaming

A while ago, I read Frank Bettger’s How I Raised Myself From Failure To Success In Selling.

Along with being recommended by some top-flight marketing birds, this book is also featured in the nostalgic soft-core porn Barcelona, in which the earnest and nerdy main character reads it to his plump, uncomprehending secretary.

Anyways, Bettger’s book has many good lessons, whether you are a failure in selling or pickup.

Such as for example, his very first lesson.

More than a hundred years ago, Bettger started out as a professional baseball player. But was afraid of failure, and so he didn’t put in all the effort he could.

His coach called him into the office and told him he’s being let go.

“If you didn’t drag around the field like a limp noodle,” the coach said, “maybe you’d have a place on this team.”

Bettger took this lesson to heart.

And the next time he got a spot on a team, he became the most enthusiastic little baseballer that the great American pastime had ever seen.

He ran like an escaped convict to first base.

He threw himself at every ground ball regardless of how far it was.

He wore a smile and he radiated positive energy and verve while in the field.

His enthusiasm soon made him a much better player, and his salary was something like tripled (though back then baseball players basically worked for peanuts and hot dogs).

And did you catch how Bettger became so enthusiastic and successful?

If you didn’t, he spells it out in his book:

“The best way to be enthusiastic is to act enthusiastic”

Of course, it’s possible to overdo this.

But odds are good that right now you too are a limp noodle when it comes to daygame.

And whether it’s a matter of going out onto the street, running after a fast-moving tart in heels, or stopping her with a flashing smile, you could probably use some more forced enthusiasm.

I know I could. And that’s why I will remember Frank Bettger when I go out for my daygame sesh tomorrow morning.